What is true love?
Is love something thats needed in life? Is it expected of you to fall in love have a happy relationship, get married and have kids?
But what is love? Is it a feeling, is it something that can get turned on and off?
I will tell you something about me – I live a lie.
My current relationship is with Ryan. He always says he loves me and i say it back. Now after 2 months of this im feeling resentfull. I nolonger want to be with him. Thats mean of me. People ask me if im single and i answer with a simple ‘yes’. So im also a bitch. Maybe im not as im too nice to just break up – or maybe im being horrible for stringing him along.
How come people strive to be in a relationship and when they are in one they want to be single again? Come’on people times have changed. Women now can do everything a man can – they now have power, sucess and freedom so do they need a man?
Or is Samantha off of sex and the city right? is it easier to be with a man who loves you more then you love them?
Im confused i need advice so if anyone online has advice please comment me.
Nita said,
January 23, 2007 at 4:44 am
I think every relationship should be reciprocal.
I don’t know who Samantha is but I think that it may SEEM as if one partner loves more than the other. Everyone has a different capacity of love and a different way of showing it. One cannot judge how much a person loves by measuring him or her by one’s own standards. I think it is better to see the relationships this other has with other people in his life. If he has strong bonds, then it means something.
Autumn said,
April 7, 2008 at 2:33 am
you will never know who i am or where i live. but i get how you feel. its amazing how feelings can change for someone you seem to love so much one min. you may have felt like you were stringing him along, and not to say you weren’t, but it wasnt purposfully. not wanting to break someones heart is never bad. but if you feel that way about a realationship, you need to get out. or in this case, needed.